That s why during the time of the loved one s departure , maybe the best thing is that we should just pray for them to go to heaven , to enjoy and be liberated 所以当亲人往生时，最好是祈祷他们能到天国享受，并得到解脱而不是哭泣悲伤和过度思念他们，因为这会让他们也感到痛苦，而耽误了他们前往更高的境界。
In the book " conversations with god , " it is said that earth is heaven . we are living in heaven and if we think we have to go to heaven , we have already placed ourselves in a lower level and there is nowhere to go but here 在与神对话这本书里说人间就是天堂，我们已置身天堂了，如果我们认为还需去天堂，就已经把自己降级了，除这里外没有别处可去。
At one period of time , god forbade any " unserious " person to go to heaven because they always came there very undisciplined , lying around everywhere , drinking , making a mess , and they didn t clean their garbage and all that 有一阵子上帝禁止不严肃的人上天堂，因为他们上去以后都不守规矩，随便乱躺，到处吃吃喝喝，弄得乱七八糟，垃圾都不清理乾净。
