Can you enjoy the life now you have . if the answer is no , what would you do to change , improve or modify 问题：你能够安享你现在的生活么？如果答案是“否” ，你将怎样做来改变、改善呢？
But still , if you can manage well , you will be okay , because life is simpler now . tofu is cheaper than beefsteak , just a little different , a piece of tofu instead of that piece of meat 尽管如此，只要你管理得当，你也可以过得不错，因为你现在的生活比较简单了，豆腐比牛排便宜多了，把牛排换成豆腐，不也才一丁点不同罢了。
Your life as it is now : nightmare . every single thing you cling to and have convinced yourself you cannot be happy without : nightmare . then you will hate father and mother , wife and children , brothers and sisters and even your own life 父母是恶梦，妻子儿女兄弟姊妹都是恶梦，你所拥有的一切都是恶梦，你现在的生活是恶梦，任何东西使你痴恋和令你相信没有它们便没有快乐的，更是恶梦。
Ow full of activities and interesting people - you do this , go there , talk about this , make jokes , hang together , have a party , and have fun . then you don t have time to think too much . you do think maybe , but less intensely than when you have nothing to do , with just a boring job and boring home to come to , and you re friendless and lonely - that will kill you 请告诉那些人：只要努力跨出第一步，就没问题了，因为万事的起头是最最重要的，一旦你开始做了，就会持续下去，因为你会得到各种乐趣再次感到愉快，你不会再记得那个坏习惯或许你还会记得，但因为你现在的生活充实又忙碌，接触的都是有趣好玩的人，你每天做做这个事到那里晃一晃，找人聊聊天开开玩笑，大家聚在一起，开个派对，开心玩一玩，你就不会有时间再去想那些事。
