They support each other in their careers and help each other in everyday life . in china , such families with close emotional ties are emerging in large numbers 夫妻在事业上相互支持，在生活上相互帮助，出现了许许多多互敬互爱、携手共进的好家庭。
Master also advised us to talk more about the merits of others , and to speak about their shortcomings only occasionally . in this way , we will be able to manage our family well , handle human relationships properly , and thus encounter fewer obstacles and experience fewer struggles 师父还说，多讲对方的长处，短处偶尔讲一点，这样才能处理好家庭及人际关系，障碍就会减少，自己也不会那么挣扎。
