After an affectionate parting between the friends , elizabeth was attended to the carriage by mr . collins , and as they walked down the garden , he was commissioning her with his best respects to all her family , not forgetting his thanks for the kindness he had received at longbourn in the winter , and his compliments to mr . and mrs . gardiner , though unknown 大家恋恋不舍地告别以后，便由柯林斯先生送伊丽莎白上车。他们从花园那儿走去，他一路托她回去代他向她全家请安，而且没有忘了感谢他去年冬天在浪搏恩受到的款待，还请他代为问候嘉丁纳夫妇，其实他并不认识他们。
They were ready to go to church ; the beautiful bride , mr . lorry , and miss pross - to whom the event , through a gradual process of reconcilement to the inevitable , would have been one of absolute bliss , but for the yet lingering consideration that her brother solomon should have been the bridegroom 美丽的新娘罗瑞先生和普洛丝小姐都已作好去教堂的准备。经过了一个适应过程，普洛丝小姐已逐渐接受了那无法逃避的事实，这桩婚事对她只剩下绝对的欢乐了，尽管她仍然恋恋不舍，希望当新郎的是她的弟弟所罗门。
As the difference bteween theoretical denial and behaviorial suspicon , that is , thought is brave while language is bold , so they can express what their heart would not accept , but action is a big step forward . only absorbing them and transforming them into action , can we avoid such an unacceptable outcoming : human ' s wit is running forward , while our heart and spirit are still lagging behind ; because they are reluctant to part with the last , they are still saying goodbye when they are being judged and punished by wit 因为理论上的否定与变成行动的怀疑是不同的，思想是勇敢的，语言是大胆的，它们可以轻易说出内心不愿接受的话，而行动却是跨前的一大步。只有内化为实际行动，我们才会避免这样一种不愿接受的结局：人类时代的智慧已经跑到了前面，而我们的心灵和精神却还在落后，因为它恋恋不舍过去，当智慧在对它进行判决和惩罚时，它还在和过去难舍难分。
