She said , " be happy with a woman , you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all . 她会告诉你，要想与一个女人幸福相守，你必须尽量多爱她，但绝不要试图去理解。
A song of the sea is special to one who plays it , justin . never give away its beauty to one so cruel 大海的歌只有合适的人才能吹得好听。绝不要让这么邪恶的人听到那美妙的音乐。
Never frown , even when you are sad , because you never know who is falling in love with your smile 即使你（ ? ）很伤心，也绝不要皱眉，因为你（ ? ）永远不知道谁爱上了你（ ? ）的笑容。
Never use the system administrator id and password in your code , because this presents a significant security risk 绝不要在代码中使用系统管理员id和密码，因为这样会导致严重的安全性风险。
Garbage should stay where it belongs . as fast as possible throw it away . never share it with people 垃圾就应该留在它所属的地方，而且要尽快把它丢掉，绝不要拿去分给别人，既然是不好的东西，为何还要分享？
Don " t take guilt trips . take a trip to the mall , to the next county , to a foreign country , but not to where the guilt is 不要带着内疚出门。去逛商场吧，去郊游吧，去国外旅游吧，不过，绝不要去引起自己负疚的地方。
Never be the first one to leave . observe how your co - workers behave around quitting time . it does no look good for you to be eager to leave 绝不要第一个离开办公室看看你的同事到下班时的举动如何。急于要走是不好的。
If it s not , we have to have the courage and the wisdom to stop , and the positive thinking to start anew . and never give up after one failure 假如不值得，就要有勇气和智慧做个了断，用肯定的思想重新出发，绝不要遭遇失败就放弃。
Winners do not play “ helpless ” , nor do they play the blaming game . instead , they assume responsibility for their own lives 胜者绝不要"凄惨无助"之把戏，也决不玩"委过于人"之游戏。相反，他们会毅然肩负起对自身人生的责任（忍辱负重，无怨亦无悔） 。
Master emphasizes that not a single quan yin practitioner on this planet can fail to see the inner light so fellow initiates should never give up on meditation 师父强调，在这个星球上没有一位修观音法门的人看不到内在的光，因此同修绝不要放弃打坐。
