相矛盾的

• Because we were taught to focus elsewhere ; we were taught to think unnaturally ； we were taught a way of looking at the world that contradicts who we are ； we were taught that things like grades , being good enough , money , and doing things the right way , are more important than love
  因为我们被教导去注重别处；我们也被教导要打破固有的思维去思考问题；我们也被教导要与我们相矛盾的方式去看待世界；我们也被教导诸如此类的一些事情如社会地位，金钱，以及做事情的正确方式等均要比人与人之间的爱重要的多。