Ask yourself : how much difference the problem really makes . is it worth making an enemy ? do i have a realistic chance of winning 扪心自问：这个问题到底有多大的重要性？是否值得你为此树敌？我有切实的获胜机会吗？
Another way of viewing finding happiness for ourself is to ask if we are actually dependent on others with whom we are living 检视我们为自己寻觅快乐过程的另一个方法，那就是扪心自问我们是否需要依赖生活中的其他人？
Ask yourself . . . have you put aside enough time for her , to listen to her " blues " of working in the kitchen , her tiredness 扪心自问，你是否曾经抽出过足够的时间陪伴她，听她讲围着灶台转的“伤心事” ，讲她也会疲劳？ ？ ？
Progressive evangelicals , such as elizabeth fry , a prison reformer , questioned their own charitable motives with painful introspection 就连一些进步的福音论者，例如监狱改革者- - - -伊丽莎白?芙莱女士，也痛苦地扪心自问慈善动机究竟是什么。
" after putting him on the transfer list , i expect that the directors then asked themselves why so many clubs were interested in him , " he continued “在俱乐部将他放入转会名单之后，我希望俱乐部扪心自问为什么这么多俱乐部对球员感兴趣， ”他续道。
Ask yourself whether “ i can ' t forgive ” means “ i won ' t forgive . ” then turn your heart toward the warmth of god ' s love and allow that love to thaw your heart 扪心自问，使“不能原谅”还是“不肯原谅” 。然后用心去感受爱，让爱来软化你纠结的心。
Janice : well then ask yourself this . why do you think we keep ending up together ? new year ' s ? who invited who ? valentine ' s ? who asked who into whose bed 嗯，那你扪心自问，咱俩为啥总是能分而复合？新年的时候，谁找的谁？情人节呢，又是谁请谁上了谁的床？
It is up to the individual to provide the answers and use them as a guide toward fostering goodwill and maintaining ethical business and professional standards 个人只需要扪心自问回答问题，并用这些答案作为促进信誉与维持事业及专业道德标准的指导方针即可。
" we ' ve got to ask ourselves if traffic safety and health protection should not take precedence . smoke fumes inside a car are many times higher than in other areas . 我们必须扪心自问是否该以交通安全及捍卫健康为优先。汽车里的烟雾浓度要比其他地区高出了许多倍。
In arriving at an answer i remembered master talking about how maya makes use of disciples to attack her , " so , if you don t make trouble for me , i m lucky already . 扪心自问：我能为师父做点甚么师父谈及魔常利用徒弟来攻击她：所以，如果你们不找麻烦给我，我就已经够幸运了。
